Thursday, June 9, 2011

Suck it Up and Get Over It

I've been debating on whether or not to put this on here, let alone even writing it. But I've put this off for too long, I need to get this out in the open. I have many friends, both guys and girls, and I love them all. But I have one friend that has started to drive me crazy quite a lot lately.

This friend of mine has problems at home and she has problems with guys and problems with classes and problems with teacers. I get that, everybody does. But what's different about my friend is that she has such a sour attitude when she's pissed. Her attitude is like a repellent. She gets all silent and mopey (is that a word?) and it makes her friends, including me, want to get away from her and her attitude.

I guess that's why I'm writing this post, to voice my frustrations I can't say out loud to anyone. I'm tired of keeping it all inside. I'm getting so frustrated with my friends mood-swings. Everytime I try to ask her what's wrong, just simple answerable things, she glares at me and tears me apart, and I know it's not because of her period. When my friend gets all mopey the way she does, it's almost as if she's putting us ( me and other friends) on a guilt trip as if we did something wrong. And whenever we try to comfort her she gets even angrier.

Another thing that bothers me about my friends attitude is that whenever she complains about the problems she's having, it's almost like she doesn't think that any one of her other friends has problems; like at home or school or whatever.

I know this sounds like I'm complaining about my friend, but really, I'm not. I'm just frustrated with her at the moment. She's a great friend, and I love her dearly, but for right now, all I can say is, "Suck it up and get over it already before all your friends ditch you..."

4 comments:

Cactus Jack Splash said...

I think we have all dealt with friends like this at some time, it is hard to do. Hang in there

Anonymous said...

That is so true for many. I myself have dealt with that stuff with a lot of people. The really need to suck it up and get over it.

Loving Faith:))

anml_lvr said...

Oh thank-you. I knew someone would understand! I have to deal with this almost on a daily basis...and thank-you anonymous person :)

Teena in Toronto said...

I hope things work out for your friend.

Happy blogoversary :)